Hands-Free Toys For People with a Vulva
We've all had a need for hands-free pleasure. Maybe you're sick of your usual positioning, you have a physical disability or your hands have gone numb from holding that vibrator – I've got you.
I absolutely adore the move towards accessible toy design, and there are some fantastic hands-free toys out there, particularly for people with vulvas!
Here's a few of my favourites!
Starting with an obvious one here – suction cup dildos are absolutely fantastic when it comes to fuss-free penetration. Plus, a suction cup dildo can usually be used in a harness as a strap-on – hooray for dual-purpose toys!
My favourite one at the moment is the Lovehoney Air and Water Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo – I absolutely love the colours and the swirly pattern.
Realistic dildos aren't my thing, so this one is perfect for me. If you are a fan of realistic dildos – never fear! Lovehoney has a huge range of suction cup dildos, in all different sizes and colours, vibrating, non-vibrating, erecting (!!!) the choice is yours! Just stick it on a horizontal or vertical surface (make sure it's strong), cover the dildo in water-based lube and go to town.
Next up, another fantastic dual-purpose toy – Kegel balls! These babies are used for strengthening your pelvic floor, as well as sparking up your arousal.
I've got my eyes on the Lovehoney Main Squeeze Double Kegel Balls at the moment – they're nice and simple and coated in silicone, so I know they're safe for my body.
They have free-roaming jiggle balls inside them which move with your own movements, hitting all the right spots.
Sometimes they're for your partner's fun, other times they're useful for a super lazy solo-session – I'm not judging.
Panty vibrators are compact toys that are curved and small enough to fit comfortably in your panties to externally stimulate your external sensitive spots with vibrations. Yum.
The Happy Rabbit Remote Control Panty Vibrator comes with a remote control and with super-cute lace panties, complete with a tufty bunny tail.
The Lelo Ina Wave Luxury Rechargeable 10 Function Rabbit Vibrator doesn't just vibrate, it moves in a 'come hither' motion and the ears move towards the main shaft, gently clamping around the vulva and helping to hold it in place.
Using lube, you can insert this toy, switch it on and let go. The motions will do all the work!
Thrust in Me
Another techy toy for you – the Fun Factory X Lovehoney Stronic Drei is truly the happiest looking toy I've seen. It's such a fun colour, and the thrusting motion that it moves in looks absolutely delightful.
This is another toy that you can just insert and let go, allowing the toy to grant you with realistic stimulation.
This toy can also be used for anal play because it has a flared base – we already know how I feel about dual-purpose toys. Must I say more? Are you in love yet? I am!
Doesn't this toy just look like it's the cutest little sidekick in the world? Honestly, I'm desperate to get my hands on it.
The Dame Eva II's petite shape is designed specifically for the vulva, the arms tuck under the labia to stay in place so that your clitoris can get some direct, fuss-free action.
It's innovative, rechargeable, waterproof and going straight into my shopping cart.
Have I been living under a rock? Where has this been all my life? While researching for this blog I stumbled across the Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Hot Seat, with handles and a vibrating dildo smack bang in the middle of it – truly fit for a queen.
AND THEN I came across this magical invention, which I honestly think has been designed specifically for me. The Liberator BonBon Toy Mount solves all of my lazy-girl problems. It's a sex cushion designed to hold dildos and wands for you, making them instantly hands-free and enjoyable in a variety of positions. People, this is the future. We're here.
Have fun living your hands-free sex lives, I sure will be!
Eleni is a health communications student from Sydney. Her favourite topics to communicate are sexual health, gender and sexuality; she spends her time smashing taboo topics everywhere she goes.
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