Aneros Progasm Ice Prostate Massager

Full disclosure, this was my first foray into prostate toys. And I've not looked back. However, I wouldn't recommend it for beginners.

I bought this (clear) product a few years ago when I first discovered prostate toys, based on the name. I had to wait a few years until I got a place of my own but I need not have worried as it arrived discreetly packaged. The product came in the rather upmarket Aneros packaging. Opening the box I was amazed at how good it looked, and how smooth and glasslike it was.

Eager to try, I used some silicone lube and attempted insertion. I have experience with anal play so it wasn't too difficult, however, this is the largest in the Aneros line, so beginners would be better suited to a smaller one.

Once comfortable I was soon starting contractions, and pretty soon I felt like the toy had a mind of its own, gently stroking my prostate before becoming much more vigorous. The smoothness of the toy is almost velvety when in use. Highly recommended.

Without spending too much time on packaging, it's Lovehoney standard, plain, discreet, and able to be collected by a neighbour if you aren't in.

When I get to collect the product from the neighbour, first a sneaky grin, they don't know what enjoyment they have been holding in their hands.

Eagerly unwrapping the product, and eagerly meaning opening without destroying it, produces the clearest, smoothest prostate massager I have ever seen.

I have had this Progasm for a few months now, from first use. The results get better each use. Each time, lube up and insert slowly. Solo use has been good, please allow time and prepare. it does get better with time. It can be worn around the house, out to the shops. Be warned, you do produce great amounts of pre-cum, and as time progresses, ejaculate.

With partner use, the wife has gone from "what the **** is that" to seeing the enjoyment in my eyes. After minimal encouragement, she now has a new tool in her arsenal. No pun intended.

The full feeling inside, plus her ability to move it, or pull it by hand is mind-blowing. I had to explain that it's that good, that she will have to slow down in other areas. This really took the pressure off.

Towards the end of lovemaking, she enjoyed the fact she had total control, and actually was able to produce a hands-free orgasm in myself, at her control, when she wanted to. Merely by a little movement of the Progasm handle.

Mind blown, and just about able to walk, I eagerly await the next time.

This was my first anal toy and I spent ages looking at reviews and models from Aneros, Lelo, and Rocks Off before making my mind up and choosing this one and I was really pleased I did. Now my collection has grown a bit I am always really pleased this one was my first.

I went shopping with the mindset that whatever toy I bought I wanted it to feel substantial and this definitely fits the bill. This works well if you aren't too into touching your bottom because this toy is so ergonomically shaped that it takes a slow push (and sometimes a pull out and push back in) with lube and you are away. Once it is inside it feels like it fits like a glove and I feel warm and complete inside. Because of its size it can be challenging to move with your muscles but after a few uses you build muscle (which can be useful for other activities) and you can go wild.

I have the clear plastic model and it looks lovely in its well thought through packaging which you can store him in and it doesn't say 'this is a sex toy', rather a sophisticated metrosexual-looking package for the modern man. The plastic is great for anyone who doesn't like the feel of some silicones. I find that they start off slippy and then seem to drag a little which means that I tend to stop before the real fun starts. The plastic is also extremely hygienic and incredibly easy to wash. It's really lovely and smooth and you can use it for extended periods.

What I really love about the toy is that you can walk around with it in or make love with your partner and it adds an awesome feeling dimension to the bedroom. And is especially nice when your partner is not into being the person to play with your bottom themselves.

It is also a great toy if you don't play with your bottom for a number of weeks or months, because it is a solid plastic with a shape that just slots right back in and feels just as great again. You never feel like you have been stretched out of 'shape' as it were and once you take it out the only thing you feel is a very happy prostate.

One negative is that I find the tabs dig in after time and makes it uncomfortable to sit up or sit down. I find that, as water-based lube makes me slippy, it digs in harder but I never find perineum stimulation particularly pleasant but I know that most guys actually enjoy the pressure.

Overall, this toy is a permanent fixture in my life for the last 2 years or so and it will definitely not be leaving anytime soon. It fits in brilliantly for couple play too and because it is so smooth can be put in and taken out and washed in under 5 minutes, leaving plenty of time for a cuddle. Definitely for someone who like the sensation of girth and not for someone who wants just a targeted play. The toy looks amazing and can even be left out on the side next to fancy products without looking out of place.