1. Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set (5 Piece)

      Average customer review 4.5 out of 5 stars19 reviews

      A perfect set of graduated dildo dilators for anyone who wants to try internal play for the first time. Whether you're brand new to sex toys, want to try anal for the first time or are still a virgin, these five silicone protractors ease you in gently.

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      1. Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set (5 Piece)

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    1. Product Description

      A perfect set of graduated dildo dilators for anyone who wants to try internal play for the first time. Whether you're brand new to sex toys, want to try anal for the first time or are still a virgin, these five silicone protractors ease you in gently.

      Each dildo is tapered and curved for smooth, easy insertion that's comfortable and offers gentle expansion with an oh-so tender touch. Designed as a training set to prepare your body for other internal pleasure, this kit takes you all the way from pinky-finger penetration right through to the size of a well-endowed erect penis.

      To get the most from your kit (whether using for vaginal or anal exploration) we recommend applying plenty of water-based lubricant to the toy and yourself and slowly teasing the entrance of your chosen orifice with the tip. Apply gentle pressure and allow your body to gradually accept as much length as you feel comfortable inserting.

      Stick to mastering one dilator at a time, and only move onto the next step once you're 100% happy and comfortable using the step you're on.

      Although these are safe for anal exploration, we don't recommend wearing them as butt plugs due to their non-flared base. Always keep a secure grip on the finger loop when inserting anally.

      As well as the above, these dildos are perfect for women with medical conditions which require dilation, and post-op male-to-female gender realignment dilation.


      Dilator #1: 3 inch insertable length, 1.5 inch circumference

      Dilator #2: 3.75 inch insertable length, 2.5 inch circumference

      Dilator #3: 4.75 inch insertable length, 2.9 inch circumference

      Dilator #4: 5.5 inch insertable length, 3.5 inch circumference

      Dilator #5: 6.5 inch insertable length, 4.25 inch circumference

      Key Features:

      • A set of 5 premium silicone dildos for progressing internal massage play
      • Tapered and curved for easy, comfortable insertion, with finger loop for seamless control
      • Perfect for advancing vaginal and anal exploration
      • A percentage of each sale goes to the "Living Beyond Cancer" charity
      • Some of our customers say that these help with sex during the menopause

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    1. How it measures up

      • Circumference: 4.25 inches
      • Insertable Length: 6.5 inches
      • Length: 8.5 inches
    2. How it feels

      • Flexibility: Firm
      • Material: Silicone
    3. Essential info

      • Waterproof: Submersible
      • Allergens: Latex-Free
      • Allergens: Phthalate-Free

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    1. Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set (5 Piece)

      A brilliant set of graduated dildo dilators for anyone who wants to try internal play for the first time. Whether you are brand new to sex toys, want to try anal for the first time or are still a virgin, these five silicone protractors ease you in smoothly.

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    1. Customer Reviews

      Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set (5 Piece) 19 4.5 out of 5 stars 4.5 out of 5

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    1. Great product for those that need it

      Reviewed: 16 October 2020 by McNic, a Straight Married Female

      After being recommended to use dilators due to an overactive postnatal pelvic floor, I finally settled on these as they were a lot less intimidating than the plastic/glass ones you can get from medical sites.

      They are easy to use, and the loop at the bottom is helpful for insertion and removal. I put on some relaxation or meditation music (so has been psychologically beneficial as well, forcing me to take the time to relax while my one year old is asleep) and for the first time in a year I've actually been able to relax my pelvic floor enough to be able to do a proper muscle contraction.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      Not intimidating like some dilators.
      On the expensive side, but not the most expensive out there.
      Bottom line
      Great tool to help with stretching and relaxing your pelvic floor.
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    1. So ducking good - update

      Reviewed: 24 March 2020 by Pretty little flower, a Straight Engaged Female

      So I'm 21-years-old and I've lost my virginity two days ago with my fiancee!This cured my vaginismus!

      This dilator worked well. Like my previous review described, that's what I did until I was finished with the largest size.

      Of course, I didn't lose my virginity like two weeks after... For me, it was a process that took a few months... and between that I would try having sex with my fiancee; he couldn't enter fully until two days ago. Horrible first time lol, but it was all worth it because of the love and patience he had for me!

      The best advice I can give is that you should have patience... Give it time and ensure you enjoy using the dilators. The more turned on you are, the easier the dilator will go in because being turned on makes the vaginal canal expand. And p.s., You can hold a baby for 9 months then push out that baby through your vagina, so don't let guys flatter themselves over how 'big' they are. We can conquer this.

      Also, if anyone says your vagina is 'loose' or 'too loose' or any nonsense like that, it's because you're very turned on - it's definitely not your fault they're stupid.

      Finally, ease down on criticising yourself because you can't have sex like all girls your age... That negative energy will just cause you to be stressed and miserable. #spreadpositivity

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      The fact that it worked.
      I feel it should be cheaper since this is the cure to vaginismus.
      Bottom line
      This is definitely the cure to vaginismus, I'm living proof!
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    1. So ducking good

      Reviewed: 09 December 2019 by Pretty little flower, a Straight Engaged Female

      So I recieved my set of dilators today, and it really works! They are so soft and not terrifying like the clinical kind. To introduce myself, I'm almost 21, a virgin, and have a boyfriend for a bit over a year. Nothing worked for us, his penis was never able to enter me, not even the tip, and I always experienced pain, and today the smallest size dilator went in my vagina and I see an erotic future lol. The other reviews tell you pretty much everything you need to know to get things up and going.

      Just to clarify, first I got comfortable by taking a long shower, then I put on some music and put a pillow under my hip, then lubed up the dilator. At first it wasn't going in my vagina, so I played with it a bit to make myself associate it with sex. Then the tip of the smallest dilator went in just a bit, I kept it there and then it eventually slid in. I rotated it and pushed it in and out slowly until I could've done it faster.

      The key to making this work is to focus on what you're doing and enjoy it... don't read a book or go on Instagram while it's inside... you need to dedicate yourself to this. Also, I tried clenching my vaginal area to try figure when I'm clenching and when I'm not. I will try the smallest for about 2 more days then move onto the larger size so that it's a smooth and sure transition.

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      It was so soft and pink... I really felt comfortable with it.
      It's expensive but worth it.
      Bottom line
      This is about to cure my vagismus.
    3. 12 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. Incredible product

      Reviewed: 11 July 2019 by deb1991, a Gay Going Steady Female

      Like many others, I bought this set to help with painful penetration. I didn't use it much at first, but then I got a partner and some of the things both she and I would like to do to me are unfortunately too painful/intimidating.

      I've only used the first 3 in the set but I'm already so happy with the results! I went from the second to third smallest one pretty quickly and I was actually stunned at how easily it went in.

      Make sure you use plenty of lube (too much is better than too little) and give yourself plenty of time to lie back and relax into it. I would slowly push it in and out for maybe 20 mins after which it was almost unnoticeable.

      Definitely a good investment!

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      Easy insertion, not intimidating, nice feel.
      Bottom line
      A must-have for someone worried about penetration.
    3. 7 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes
    1. Unintimidating and perfect for people experiencing anxiety around penetration

      Reviewed: 13 March 2019 by Leafy0, a Straight Single Female

      I purchased these after experiencing a lot of trouble trying to have penetrative sex for the first time. My partner's penis literally wouldn't go into my vagina, no matter how hard we tried, and even my partner just inserting a finger was very painful. (I later realised this is actually very common, so if you're in this position don't lose hope! Most likely, all you need to do is become comfortable with penetration on a smaller scale first).

      I decided to buy this set and am very very happy with it. The ring around the base is incredibly reassuring to hold onto and control (and you could slip a vibrator into it for added fun when you're feeling more confident!), and the tapered tip makes for easier gradual insertion. The dilators are solid and feel high quality, and the silicone is super soft and unintimidating. I found many other dilator kits online but they all looked oddly clinical compared to these, and also lacked the tapered tip. I had become quite scared of penetration by this point so these were a great unintimidating way to restart the process and 'warm up'. They also boosted my confidence by allowing me to track my progress by working up the sizes.

      How I used them (after painful first-time sex attempts).

      There are some great reviews left earlier which I used and found very helpful, so definitely give them a read! But here's my personal experience for helping with first-time penetration:

      1. I began by lying in my bed with a pillow under my butt so that my hips were slightly raised at an upward angle, and I spread my legs apart to a comfortable distance.

      2. Sometimes I'd stay in this position for a while just to get used to it (being naked, legs spread) and read a book or something, just to become calm and comfortable. I then used some handy material get turned on and, personally, I didn't touch my clit so that I'd crave stimulation no matter what kind - this is just something that worked for me, but might not for you! If it helps to touch your clit, do! Basically just do whatever you need to do to get comfortable, wet, and ready to begin (wetness isn't mandatory, but it physically helps with insertion and mentally will help you associate what you're doing with pleasure. For me, that was the end goal: less pain, more pleasure).

      3. I then took the smaller dilator and gently rubbed it over my body, not inserting it, just getting comfortable with it.

      4. I then lubed up the dilator (with Yes organic lube - make sure it's compatible with silicone!) and began to very very *very* slowly to insert it into my vagina. Remember, there is absolutely no hurry and you don't have to insert it any further than you're comfortable with. Personally, I found that I'd get a little bit in, it would hurt a little, and I'd panic a bit, so I'd hold it there and just take deep breaths. As I calmed down, my vagina would relax, the little bit of pain would ease, and I could slip a little more in. Remember that this is a process, and it's completely okay if you can't get the whole thing in during one sitting - I didn't at first! If you're taking it slowly, you will not feel too much pain.

      5. These were not very painful to insert, and in fact mostly painless, but at the time I was experiencing a lot of anxiety/panic around penetration. So the first few times I'd get a little in, then have to stop and cry - but crying actually helped me to release that pent-up anxiety and relax, so I'd try inserting the dilator again after and it would work. I'm saying that just so you know that it's okay and helpful if you need to stop and let feelings out. You probably won't experience this, but it's something I was surprised and honestly quite ashamed and frustrated by at the time. Just keep reminding yourself of your progress. :)

      6. Let the dilator sit inside your vagina for as long as you're comfortable with (I aimed for 10 minutes), even if you couldn't get it fully in. If you're feeling confident, you can twist it or move it in/out slowly, just get used to the sensation (this can also make you cum).

      7. Slowly remove the dilator, your vagina will probably naturally 'push' it out slowly. Personally, after finishing a session with a dilator, if I didn't already cum, I rubbed my clit to finish. It was important for me to associate the dilators with pleasure rather than a 'chore'.

      In conclusion from this very long TMI essay of a review, I'd recommend these. If you're comfortable with fingering, definitely try doing that first, since it's free (yay) and it's healthy for you to feel inside your vagina (so you can keep check of things in there!). But if you're unable to do this, these dilators are a great step for first-time penetration prep. I was finally able to have great sex after. The two largest dilators also work as 'regular' dildos for me now too, so I can continue to use them. :)

    2. Overall Rating
      10 out of 10 stars
      Quality solid feel, soft outer material, tapered tip, ring base for control, quick discreet postage.
      Very expensive! Second and third dilators very close in size.
      Bottom line
      Unintimidating way to ease into penetration and become more comfortable.
    3. 34 people found this review helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes