Sexual Happiness 101

Lovehoney's essential guide to enjoying a happier,
healthier sex life

Sexual Happiness 101

Sex. Pretty good, huh? But we don’t want you to settle for a ‘good’ sex life. We want you to enjoy an absolutely incredible sex life, whether you’re playing with a partner or on your own.

And the foundation to a great sex life is good communication, so on this page you’ll find everything you need to help you talk about sex and sex toys with a partner (or indeed yourself).

From making conversations about sex and desire a normal part of your life, to finding the right toys for you, we’ve got you covered.

Let's Talk about Sex

Communication is key – especially when it’s between the bedsheets. Lovehoney Australia’s in-house content queen Cailin is here to give you the full lowdown on what you really should be saying during sex. Are you ready?

Sex Talk 101

Despite the majority of us being sexually active, it seems we can be a little reluctant to talk through what happens (or what doesn’t happen) in the bedroom. Discover how to loosen up in the bedroom and share your desires and fantasies with your partner.

How to Communicate your Desires and Fantasies

If you’ve ever wanted to talk dirty to your lover, but tend to end up totally tongue-tied, read this guide to pick up the ultimate tips and tricks.

How to Talk Dirty: Perfecting the Art of Dirty Chat

Coming out has no age limit: whether you're 14 or 45, it's never too late to confirm your gender identity or sexuality for yourself. We've rounded up advice on things to consider before you come out, and some tips on how to do it in style, once you're ready.

How to Come Out

Let's Talk about Sex Toys

Whether it's a blindfold or a butt plug, Lovehoney's got the lowdown on how to talk to your partner about your sex toy fantasies.

How to Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Relationship

Learn your sex toy ABC with Lovehoney’s A to Z of Sex Toys Guide. Whether you’re new to sex toys or an experienced aficionado looking for the next step up in your intimate pleasure quest, we’ve got you covered.

The A to Z of Sex Toys

Whether you want to discover new ways to connect with each other, or you want to spice up your erotic routine with something a bit different, sex toys can be an exciting way to increase desire and sexual satisfaction between you and your partner.

How to Use Sex Toys With Your Partner

It's a fact that people who use lube have better sex. Not only does the slippery stuff ease penetration but it can also make external play much more enjoyable - so what’s not to love?

The Lovehoney Guide to Lube

Whether you're looking for toys to play with together or something just for you, the choice can be a little overwhelming. The below guides will help find the perfect sex toy partner.

The Top 10 Sex Toys for Couples

The Top 10 Sex Toys for Men

The Top 10 Most Powerful Vibrators

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Let's Talk about Bondage

With so many BDSM toys and tools out there, shopping for bondage toys can be a little overwhelming for first-timers. We’ll talk you through the different types of toys, and share some top tips for spicing up your sex life.

Beginner’s Guide to Bondage

A lot of the stigma about bondage has evaporated in recent years and there are many curious lovers looking for new ways to enjoy sexual experiences with their partners. Take the first few steps with our hand first-time bondage guide.

How to Introduce Bondage to Your Relationship

When most people think of bondage, they think of a man or woman being chained to the bed posts with a set of furry handcuffs. Although this is a fun way to get into tie-up play, there is a lot more to enjoy and explore when it comes to bondage. That’s why we’ve put together our top bondage tips and tricks for all you BDSM beginners.

Bondage Techniques 101

Welcome to the wonderful world of kink, where there’s a little bit of something for everyone. So what better way to orient yourself in the what’s what of kink than to check out our A to Z?

The A to Z of Kink

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Let's Talk about Sexual Wellness

Women are complex creatures, especially when it comes to sexual health, and it's hugely important to keep your lady parts happy and healthy. Listen in for advice and chat on the important issue of how to keep your vulva happy and healthy.

How to Have a Happy, Healthy Vulva (Lovehoney podcast)

Many women think that the menopause means the end of an exciting sex life. We’d like to disagree. Thanks to good hormone management, self-awareness, and some helpful advice, many menopausal women are having better sex than ever.

The Phoenix Years: Sex, The Menopause and You

Sexual Happiness Podcast co-host Violet is joined by erotic educator, Tamica Wilder, to talk about the challenges of getting your sexy back after having a baby.

How to Have Sex Postpartum (Lovehoney podcast)

Erectile dysfunction (ED) affects anywhere up to 76.5% of the global population of men. Discover everything you need to know about it with renowned sex coach, Cam Fraser.

Everything You Need to Know About Erectile Dysfunction (with Cam Fraser)

Size certainly isn't everything, but if you want to experiment with a bigger penis, sex toys could be your answer. Read on to learn about how to get the measuring tape extending in the right direction.

How To Make Your Penis Bigger Using Sex Toys