Blush Realistic Vagina Male Masturbator

I purchased this masturbator as, let's be honest, while a five knuckle shuffle gets the job done, it can be made more interesting and this toy does just that.

My wife and I have used it together in the bedroom for a bit more spice as well as having my own solo fun. It does feel fantastic and is a lot more interesting than just using your hand alone. It does not replace the real thing, but it is a good substitute at a great price and is very easy to clean.

I bought this with some reserves as I have had these types of toys before and they have never been any good.

I always find they don't feel or look very realistic, which is a must for me.

When I got this I was pleasantly surprised by how nice it feels, both while holding and in use.

Would highly recommend.

Product description:

Weight Canal diameter Length Colour

165g 1 cm 13.2 cm Milk chocolate

Some General Comments on ‘Realistic’ Strokers:

This was the sixth ‘realistic’ stroker we’ve bought; its colour was the main attraction. (I’ve provided comparative reviews here of four of the others: Lovehoney’s own ‘Lola’, ‘Lea’ and ‘Ella’ [formerly Elle] from the Thrust range, and NS Novelties’ Ashlynn’s Butt.) Like all Lovehoney products it arrived in discreet packaging and is a well-made item.

So we’ve been using them for over a year, enough to get past the novelty of using strokers and offer some more general comments first! What ‘realistic’ soft strokers provide is a much more natural, ‘fleshy’ feel, look and texture and much greater variety in use in couples’ sex (see below) as well as solo wanking, which the hard-cased masturbators can’t provide.

In my experience Lovehoney doesn’t produce or sell many poor quality items - so I don’t think rating items as good or bad on its own, or enthusing wildly or criticising, is quite as helpful as being able to compare and contrast different items. Almost all Lovehoney products are going to be good for certain uses, and maybe not so great for others; like some other reviewers I find it’s helpful to clarify what each is good for, both in solo sessions and in couples’ sex.

This particular stroker isn’t made by Lovehoney, but by a company called Blush Novelties. It’s made from TPE (thermoplastic elastomer); most of the Lovehoney strokers are made from TPR (thermoplastic rubber). Both are a mixture of plastic and rubber which stretches massively and returns to the original shape; the TPE is slightly softer and lighter than the TPR.

So these apparently tiny holes and tubes or canals really do welcome a hard male erection. The soft pliability of the material means the stroker can be manually squeezed in use to increase tightness and intensity, which I have found provides much more variety than hard-cased strokers, and warming them first makes a slight improvement, though your hand warms them quickly enough in use.

Cleaning each stroker is straightforward. Holding it under warm running water and using a finger to work the water inside the canal has proved enough each time, so we haven’t even needed soap. Renewer powder should be added after each wash to remove the ‘tacky’ feel of TPE/R.

Use in Solo and Mutual Masturbation:

For solo and mutual masturbation, I distinguish between strokers which are good for a long (30-60 minutes) session, and strokers which bring on orgasm very quickly. A third aspect concerns strokers which provide additional pleasure in penetrative lovemaking.

I see that for some reviewers it’s a disappointment that most erect cocks will push out of the top end of these strokers. So I can’t emphasise strongly enough that for me the feature of being able to pop my hard-on out through the exit hole (my erection is an average 6” long), rather than being unsatisfactory, is a big, big plus. This is another reason why I prefer these strokers to hard-cased ones.

To explain: for me, as for most men, the most sensitive parts of my penis are the corona (the rim of my glans penis or knob) and the frenulum (the underside of the glans). Thrusting through the small exit hole on a stroker and then pulling back into it stimulates my corona intensely. So in solo masturbation, or if my wife is wanking me off, the biggest orgasms come by using the exit hole like this.

Use in Penetrative Sex:

And the orgasms are even bigger when using a stroker as an extra in penetrative lovemaking. To thrust through a stroker into my wife’s pussy means my glans or knob is stimulated by first pushing through her pussy lips and flaps, and just as much by returning through the stroker’s exit hole back into its canal - the tight exit hole catches and really pleasures my corona.

Factoring in the extra stimulation which the canal’s ribbing provides to my shaft and knob means this is a really powerful additional pleasure for me, and also for my wife.

She has very sensitive pussy lips and flaps, so when penetrating like this I invert the stroker, entering through the top or exit hole and emerging through the stroker’s pussy lips.

This means while thrusting through the stroker and into her I can hold the stroker with one hand and use the stroker’s lips and clit to rub hers, which she really loves. Depending on the stroker, the flexibility of the TPR material means it compresses so much I can get about half my length into her with each thrust.

Specific to the Blush Realistic Vagina Male Masturbator:

We chose to try this stroker because of its milk chocolate colour, since we really like certain darker-skinned movie actresses and we both enjoy fantasising about threesomes with some of them. The manufacturer’s name for the masturbator is “Mamacita Latin Coloured Stroker”.

It’s very well-made and very light, though as another reviewer has noted, the entry hole between the rather lovely pussy lips comes with a thin layer of TPE which makes the entrance hole much narrower. It’s almost like a hymen. I found it tore all round by the second use, so I just pulled off the little bits of TPE, which also makes entry a lot easier.

With a lot of lube on my cock and dropped down inside the stroker’s canal, this product provides a lot of pleasure. But if you’ve read other reviews you’ll be aware that you’ll need to keep adding lube - a lot! Rolling the stroker inside out, I realised that this is because the ridges of the canal are very shallow compared to Lovehoney’s own strokers; they are definitely not at all ‘pronounced’ as Lovehoney states on the stroker’s webpage.

The ridges or more complex folds and textures in a stroker help to store lube in each small cavity, allowing for a long wank before more lube is needed, and with this Blush stroker hardly any can be stored.

So it’s not that easy to use in penetrative lovemaking, since we need to stop regularly to add more lube - humorous but sort of takes the magic away! Even if my wife is using it on me we have to stop for more lube. So I find I’m using it in solo masturbation, when it feels most like a sleeve gripping round my erection.

As I mentioned above, the pleasure is most intense when I pop my glans out of the top to stimulate my corona as it comes back into the canal or tube; it’s also been great to keep my glans just inside the top of the stroker then adding lube in at the top hole and using a finger to circle the lube round my corona and frenulum - very stimulating!