The Lovehoney Guide to Sex Toys for Men

Discover the wide range of sex toys that are specifically designed for men and people with penises.

Sex toys really are for anyone who wants one. Whether you’re a proud owner of a vulva or a penis, your perfect adult toy is waiting to be discovered.

While sex toys used to be synonymous with female pleasure, this is no longer the case. Now, men are exploring the joys of adult toys and experiencing enhanced masturbation and sexual satisfaction.

But what sex toys are there for men and people with penises? Loads! There are many different types, shapes and sizes - it all depends on where you would like to stimulate and how. If you’re not sure where to start, this guide will help you find the right male sex toy for you.

Discover our massive range of male sex toys designed for men and people with penises.

Females have had it good for some time when it comes to sex toys. Now, men are getting into the act with sex toys for men that enhance masturbation and expand their sexual repertoire.

There are so many different types of male sex toys that there is absolutely something for every bloke out there, whether that is you, your boyfriend or main squeeze.

To find out what is the best male sex toy and how to use male sex toys, read on. This guide will help you find the right male sex toy for you.

Why use a Male Sex Toy?

D’uh - ‘cuz it’s fun as hell. But there are surprising benefits to using male sex toys:

  • Strokers can train yourself to last longer in bed

  • Cock rings can potentially make your stiffy stronger and last longer

  • Prostate massagers tune you into the joys of P-spot stimulation

  • Vibrating male sex toys may intensify your orgasms

The different types of Male Sex Toys

There are bucket loads of different types of male sex toys. This guide outlines the main categories of sex toys for men - it’s over to you to explore further. Whether you’re looking for something to use with a partner, to help enhance the size of your Old Fella, or to have the best solo session of your life, we’ve got you covered. Check out our sex toy feast below.

Male Masturbators

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A male masturbator - also referred to as a stroker or stroker sleeve - is the great place to start if you’re a newbie to the world of male sex toys.

Male masturbators are fairly basic but they pack a wallop and are great value for money.

They're also easy to clean with warm water or sex toy cleaner.

Loved-up couples like male masturbators as a boost to foreplay, and they're non-realistic - since they don’t look like a donger they aren’t at all intimidating.

Use these toys (and many others) with a water-based lubricant to make everything smooth and slippery downstairs.

Start with: Lovehoney Reversible Double Stroker Intense Ticklers

Read more:How to Use a Sleeve or Stroker

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Pocket Pussies & Realistic Vaginas


Unlike the non-realistic male masturbators, these sex toys are designed to look and feel just like the real thing. Which is wonderful for all the blokes out there. Oh yeah.

Pocket pussies are handheld toys that give the most realistic sensations of real love ovens. With no vibrations or complicated accessories, pocket pussies are simple but very effective. Beginner male sex toy users love ‘em to bits.

As a step up from a pocket pussy, a realistic vagina male sex toy offers even more. With lifelike shapes, sensual internal textures and hand-painted details, a realistic vagina provides a totally natural feel.

Start with: THRUST Pro Mini Ella Realistic Pocket Pussy

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The Fleshlight is a legend in its own lunchtime. They are perfect for L-platers. They cum with a discreet case and an insert that lets you enjoy the ultra-realistic sensations from the get go.

These honeys are built with a patented real-feel SuperSkin material that is heaven on your wang. They offer a choice of openings - anus, vagina, mouth - and textured inserts to vary the love tunnel feel, so you can see why Fleshlights are popular.

Start with: Fleshlight Flight Pilot Male Masturbator

Read more: Which is the Best Fleshlight?

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Whereas the Fleshlight is a realistic male sex toy, anything TENGA makes is better than real!

Available in this category are the TENGA Onacups, Eggs and Flip Hole - a fabulous range of masturbators with something for everyone. Ranging in price from super affordable to a luxury treat, TENGA products come in sleek packaging and are unique in both looks and sensations.

Start with: TENGA Egg Lovers Heart Textured Male Masturbator (pictured)

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Male Vibrators


Why should people with vajingos have all the fun that cums with vibrators? Male Vibrators level the erotic playing field and give donger owners the same thrills.

These male sex toys provide the latest sex toy tech to stimulate you in new and exciting ways that - however good you are at wanking, choking the chook or getting wristy - your hand just can't deliver.

There are scads of types to choose from, including vibrating sheaths that fit over your doodle, and premium toys you whack your wang into that do all the work for you. Check out our customer reviews to see what gets the old chap standing up and saluting.

Start with: Blowmotion Warming Rechargeable Vibrating Male Masturbator

Read more: How to Use a Male Masturbator

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Prostate Massagers


The prostate gland is a hidden gem tucked up in a bloke’s pelvis. It’s packed with nerves that feel sensational when stimulated.

By using a prostate massager, you can reach this divine area via the bum hole. Some fellas report incredible full-body orgasms and climaxing from prostate play alone. OMG, you must try it.

Start with: We-Vibe Vector App Controlled Prostate Massager

Read more: How to Use a Prostate Massager

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Penis Pumps


Penis pumps can help guys with erection issues, and when used regularly may give a long-lasting increase to your wedding tackle. The suction action engorges your joystick with blood, which feels great.

It can be used prior to bonking, and your shaft should maintain its extra length and girth while you get down to the mattress mambo.

Start with: Lovehoney BASICS Penis Pump

Read more: How to Increase Your Penis Size

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Penis Extenders


These male sex toys are fun to try if you want to be hung like a horse. You may be unhappy with your current John Thomas size or maybe you just want to try something a little bit different.

No doubt, a penis extender is a cost-effective way to change up your length and girth. Simply slip one over your old chap, secure it in place and give your kinky companion a big load of donkey donger. They may well agree that this is the best male sex toy.

Start with: Lovehoney Mega Thick 2 Extra Inches Penis Extender with Ball Loop

Read more: Penis Extenders Explained

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Cock Rings


Cock rings are simple things are available in many different materials, sizes and shapes.

They are designed to trap blood in your manhood. They can improve the firmness of your stiffy and may increase your stamina.

Cock rings can be used during horizontal dancing to enhance both your and your partner's enjoyment, or you can slip one on before using a penis pump for a potentially longer-lasting erection.

Start with: Lovehoney BASICS Triple Cock Ring Set

Read more: Which is the Best Cock Ring?

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Vibrating Cock Rings


Vibrating cock rings do the same job as their simple brothers. But there’s more. These male sex toys also provide you with sensational vibrations that you and your flame can both enjoy.

A vibrating cock ring can also be used to attach your fave stroker for a cheap thrill. Or grab it in hand and apply it to your lover’s hot spots for more fun and games.

Start with: Lovehoney Bionic Bullet 5 Function Vibrating Cock Ring

Read more: How to Use a Vibrating Cock Ring

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