The Sexual Happiness Podcast S2.E5: How Can I Be More Dominant in the Bedroom?

by Vicky

on 16 Oct 2020

Maybe you think of whips, chains, and PVC, but what is the driving force behind sexual dominance play? What is meant by the terms 'safe word' and 'sub space'? Is fetish wear a necessary element? And, if you want to try power play, how do you overcome your inhibitions or initiate a discussion with your partner?

This week's guest, comedian, presenter and one-time professional Dominatrix, Desiree Burch, joins Sammi and Nick to talk about the intricacies of power play in the bedroom and the reasons why people find such intense pleasure and release from the sub /Dom experience.

Alongside this hot topic, the team share some little-known sex facts (drunken fruit fly sex anyone?) and the answers to your questions.

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Vicky

Written by Vicky. Lovehoney Writer & Toy Expert
Vicky is Lovehoney's Agony Aunt, giving you advice on all things sex and relationships. An avid global trotter and experienced Generation Xer, Vicky also pens blogs on everything from fabulously fearless LGBTQ+ warriors, to body positivity and the ins and outs of Tantra.

Originally published on 16 Oct 2020. Updated on 16 Oct 2020
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