Oscar: Navigating Sex as a Trans Man
The best way to normalise sex it is to talk about it.
The best way to normalise sex it is to talk about it.
Sex doesn't have to stop just because your period starts.
If you had asked me how many different types of orgasms there were when I was 19, I probably would have said “…there are different types?”.
Sadly, like many young women, the only type of orgasm I knew about back then was the kind I was habitually faking.
But then I bought my first sex toy, and started being more vocal about what I needed in bed, and, because of this, I’ve learnt that there are at least 12 distinct types of orgasms that women can have.
I’ve not had all of them yet, mind you. But to paraphrase my good friend 50 Cent, this year my plan is to get off or die trying.
If you, too, are curious about this kind of 'Dirty Dozen', then just keep reading to find out what they are, and how you can have them.
Being part of a Secret Santa is that much more fun if the presents are sexy.
No one really wants novelty socks or cheap-smelling hand cream when they could be getting the gift of an orgasm instead!
Secret Santa doesn't have to be a tat-filled snooze fest. Give the gift of sexual happiness to your nearest and dearest this year instead!
Here are 7 of the best sexy secret Santa gifts you can give to people you care about this Christmas.
We get so caught up in using our vibrators for solo play that we often forget to bring our sex toys to the party!
Vibrators are great for masturbating with, but they also have the ability to take sex with a partner from fun to phenomenal.
What's more, if you are someone who can't orgasm from internal stimulation alone (and believe us, you're not the only one!) then incorporating your favourite vibe into your sex life could be a game-changer.
Here are 7 of the best sex positions for adding in your vibrator – there are countless more but those are for you and your vibe to discover first-hand!
Firstly, let me get one thing out of the way – if you’ve come here to learn about ‘femidoms’, you’ve got the wrong article. “Femdom” is a BDSM term used to describe a female dominant or 'top' partner.
Femdoms may enjoy having their submissive partner call them “Mistress”, or they may prefer to refer to themselves as “Dominatrix” or “Domme”. They may not call themselves anything at all – the point is that many women take great pleasure in ruling supreme between the sheets.
If you get a kick out of being the lady in charge, maybe it’s time to embrace your inner Domme. Of course, the best thing about exploring any new kink or fetish is that you don’t have to dive straight in the deep end.
There are plenty of X-rated activities you can partake in that range from the saucy and the sensual to the down-right dirty and dominant.
If your inner Femdom is aching to make her debut, don't deny her a minute longer! Use any of the above 10 tips to embrace your dominant nature and you'll be BDSM-ing with the best of them in no time.
The love you have for each other may be platonic, but that doesn't mean you can't buy your best friend a sex toy!
Not only can something new and buzzy relieve stress, it can also boost your pal's confidence and teach them more about what makes them tick.
So the next time your BFF's birthday rolls around and you're stuck for present ideas, why not browse our amazing array of sex toys and give them the gift of sexual happiness?
Normally when you’re having mind-blowing sex, you don’t want to miss a thing.
The way your lover looks, the feel of their skin against yours, the naughty words they’re whispering into your ear.
So why would you want to try sensory deprivation?
While the term suggests you’re missing out on something, sensory deprivation during sex is actually more like taking part in a trade.
By momentarily sacrificing one of your senses, you could end up having the raunchiest sex of your life.
When I read the words 'sensory deprivation', I immediately think about those tanks of salt water you can pay to float in at spas and shopping centres (I can't help myself).
But this isn't the kind of sensory deprivation we're talking about.